Okay, since we're making this 2v2, team/faction doesn't matter.
I will assume "home team."
Starting location for my units are:
1 VSD @ H-1 (heading G-1)
2 VSDs @ H-2 (heading G-2 and G-3)
1 VSD @ H-3 (heading G-4)
Visiting team player can exit hyperspace next, in the X-grid.
Then whoever wants to join me can post their units, wherever in the H-grids.
The last visitor exit hyperspace, in the X-grid and move out if they so choose. Home team will then assume the game is afoot, and assume the following posting order:
1 - Home (me)
2 - Visitor
3 - Home
4 - Visitor
Does that work for everyone?
Happy hunting!