I see what the problem is here. The rules are written in RPG format. They are not set in stone "THOU SHALT NOT KILL" type things. They are more a set of guidelines on what is and isnt allowed. Some people here have never played D&D before so they have no clue how RPGs work. They think RPG means Final Fantasy video game, which could not be farther from correct.
In essence what your argument is Eid and Hop is you think these planets should all fight to the death, it dont matter, when in reality no force is going to take a head on engagement being outnumbed 1000 to 1, and against a star destroyer, are you mad? Its called realism. If you show up and attack a planet that only has 10 squads of troops for defense and you got an MC-80, they will surrender to you too. No one is going to realistically fight a hopeless situation, and your insane for thinking they should.
Its kind of funny, you complain you dont care about fairness and that life isnt fair, then you sit here screaming about how its not fair that the imps are getting all these planets because they showed up in a tactically and strategically superior position. And lets face it, sugar coat it all you want, this is exactly what you are saying, just trying to be delicate about it.
Basically, it comes down to your argument is irrelevant as it defies common sense. Its called role playing, for the same reason you wont openly attack a planet, planets will surrender to a far superior force. Or in the case of myrkr which was small enough to get away with it, role played out to same conclusion with a little flavor. If its your planet getting attacked, feel free to order your men to their deaths, and perhaps they might actually do it, but as far as neutral planets are concerned, they will not throw their lives away needlessly, short of a direct GM ruling to the contrary.
Another thing I dont think your argument takes into account, openly attacking a planet, such as I did at Bespin or Dem did at Myrkr, is not a mission. Its just an attack action. Missions as we discussed earlier around page 34 of this OOC, are for taking a planet without losses. If you dont care about losses, you can just attack them. Thus why I attacked Bespin and did diplomacy at Bakura, because bakura would have forced an attack, which I did not want to do. Bespin on the other hand could be out maneuvered into a no-win situation thus justifying a surrender, same with Dantooine, same with Myrkr.
So for the record, I am against changing rules and punishing people for careful planning. I mean, im sorry Eid and Hop, im on your side, I really am, but in all fairness, your asking for a rule change because the role play YOU chose basically makes it impossible to win the game on your own. Which is fine, I like your guys role play you have going, and I look forward to seeing what happens when our factions meet, and its also why you have me to help you should we be in a position to lay some hurt down, but I can not support your argument on this. Your asking for 100 part-time planetary militia to stare down a star destroyer, come on... Thats like asking for a national guard squad to go head on against the 3rd Reich. Yeah right, they'd laugh your ass right off the base while they deserted around you.